As far as using the GP widget inside your widget that is a pretty daunting task
Definitely -- I was only attempting to just use it as reference, I need something to go off of to try and implement a tabbed panel 
I can't even get THIS to fully work.
The entire widget.html needs to be encapsulated inside of a <div> .. </div> for the widget to open without error, but then the <script> section doesn't seem to fire and nothing appears when a tab is clicked.
The code is pretty much exactly as found in the simple example.
<div>
<div class="tab">
<button class="tablinks" onclick="openCity(event, 'London')">London</button>
<button class="tablinks" onclick="openCity(event, 'Paris')">Paris</button>
<button class="tablinks" onclick="openCity(event, 'Tokyo')">Tokyo</button>
</div>
<div id="London" class="tabcontent">
<h3>London</h3>
<p>London is the capital city of England.</p>
<div class="main-div" data-dojo-attach-point='mainDiv'></div>
</div>
<div id="Paris" class="tabcontent">
<h3>Paris</h3>
<p>Paris is the capital of France.</p>
</div>
<div id="Tokyo" class="tabcontent">
<h3>Tokyo</h3>
<p>Tokyo is the capital of Japan.</p>
</div>
<script>
function openCity(evt, cityName) {
var i, tabcontent, tablinks;
tabcontent = document.getElementsByClassName("tabcontent");
for (i = 0; i < tabcontent.length; i++) {
tabcontent[i].style.display = "none";
}
tablinks = document.getElementsByClassName("tablinks");
for (i = 0; i < tablinks.length; i++) {
tablinks[i].className = tablinks[i].className.replace(" active", "");
}
document.getElementById(cityName).style.display = "block";
evt.currentTarget.className += " active";
}
</script>
</div>