I believe several cases are open on this issue, I have a few myself. Unfortunately we're in "Cannot Reproduce" territory, but discussing at least weekly as we churn through different test and logging methods. Which leads me to: it would really help me, and others having the problem, if you'd log a case and have good steps to reproduce in Arc and Pro that show the same task in Arc not showing the performance issue versus the same task in Pro.
I will say, applying a blanket "Everything is slow" won't get a lot of attention, my cases focus on two very specific tasks, with the idea being that there is one specific cause that will resolve all of them. ESRI has acknowledged "There is no question you're having a problem" based on hours of screen sharing (with one analyst saying "I don't see how you get anything done"). So far we haven't gotten close to the "glaring and obvious problem", so again, if you are having a problem, love to see your details on GN but I'm hoping one day ESRI will call me and say "User so and so submitted this SDE case and we found the problem! Here's the fix...".
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