Here are some suggestions from this thread:
1) Make sure the coordinate data is not in “general” or text format instead of a number format, 2) make sure the longitude and latitude numbers are not reversed, 3) make sure to assign a coordinate system to the map frame.
Everything else I’m seeing is pointing to the Access Database software version (or driver versions), though I did see some talk about making sure the headings of your xlsx columns are free from spaces or special characters.
Hope that helps.