I fail to find a XML adapter in the "Add Input" selection. We are at the 10.3 product release. Is it out there somewhere?
If you navigate to Site > GeoEvent > Connectors and search for "XML" ... you are not seeing the following two inbound connectors?
These should be out-of-the-box at the 10.3.0 release.
What do you see when browsing to the URL https://localhost:6143/geoevent/manager/version.txt
(You should see the product version 10.3.0.4322)
Are you able to locate the XML adapter's JAR file (xml-adapter-10.3.0.jar) down beneath the framework?
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