Mark,
Thanks for the helpful info and screenshots. You have access to the FMV geoprocessing toolbox and tools. What is missing is the FMV toolbar. The steps in the post above describe how to expose that toolbar.
Perhaps the FMV Add-In is not installed? Go to the ArcMap main menu, select "Customize", then Add-In Manager. This opens the Add-In Manager dialog which should list the version of the FMV Add-In loaded on your machine.
Also, what version of ArcMap are you running? Your screenshot of the FMV toolbar is an older one from several releases ago. The newer toolbar (as of 1.5 years ago, ArcMap 10.3) is one that looks like this (the search icon looks different).
The version of the FMV Add-In needs to match the proper version of ArcMap. You can get the proper version of the FMV Add-In by browsing to the FMV Product page www.esri.com/FMV. Scroll to the bottom of the page for instructions on how to get the FMV Add-In for your version of ArcMap. It is free of charge if you are on maintenance. Otherwise there is a nominal fee of $19.99.
Another good source for info if you need to install the FMV Add-In is the FMV User's Manual is: https://community.esri.com/docs/DOC-8607
Best,
Jeff