You cannot control the allocation of SDE-set registered rowid column values in geodatabases
and "in-memory workspaces" aren't, as James pointed out, full geodatabase implementations.
The task of keeping track of pieces of a database, editing them, and merging the result back
into the original table is quite challenging, which is why the Disconnected Editing solution was
developed. But you can't pick and choose pieces of that solution (the restrictions it imposes
were necessary to make the solution work).
If Disconnected Editing doesn't meet your requirements, you'll have to decide if the days,
weeks, or even months of effort to make your own in-memory solution are worth your time,
but your design will have to actively track previous objectid values in an additional column,
and be prepared to update, delete, and insert appropriately when the transition back to
persistent geodatabase occurs.
Good luck.
- V