To keep things easy we exported all the x,y from the geodatabase and added two columns to the sql table and populated them. Once we had all the data we needed in SQL. I ran the following sql commands:
ALTER TABLE Facility ADD SHAPE Geometry
CREATE SPATIAL INDEX Spatial_Index ON Facility(Shape) USING GEOMETRY_GRID WITH ( BOUNDING_BOX = ( 0, 0,1000000 , 1000000 ))
UPDATE Facility SET shape = geometry::STPointFromText('POINT(' + convert(varchar,x_coord) + ' ' + convert(varchar, y_coord) + ')', 2954)
SELECT shape.STX as X_coord, shape.STY as Y_Coord, shape.STSrid as SRID from facility
Hope this helps,
Mike