dear robert,
i already try your suggestion but it not work in fv enviornment.i change this and make one testing page.
the code for testing page
e.<esri:Map id="myMap" width="100%" height="60%" click="myMap_clickHandler(event)">
<esri:ArcGISDynamicMapServiceLayer url="http://dell-pc/ArcGIS/rest/services/TestService/MapServer"/>
<esri:FeatureLayer id="myFeatureLayer" mode="selection" outFields="*" url="http://dell-pc/ArcGIS/rest/services/TestService/MapServer/0"/>
</esri:Map>

the data come like above image.but no link for delete menu.i change little bit of code ike below
.<esri:Map id="myMap" width="100%" height="60%" click="myMap_clickHandler(event)">
<esri:ArcGISDynamicMapServiceLayer url="http://dell-pc/ArcGIS/rest/services/TestService/MapServer"/>
<esri:FeatureLayer id="myFeatureLayer" mode="selection" outFields="*" url="http://dell-pc/ArcGIS/rest/services/TestService/FeatureSerever/0"/>
</esri:Map>

no data come in attribute table.this can be the reason for arcgis server(standard,advance).if not please check what can be the reason.
thanks in advance.