Thanks for the questions. For your first question, I want to confirm that you would like the layer name PR_CitiesAnno highlighted rather than the first selected feature. If so, we are aware of this enhancement request and appreciate the input.
For your second question, The Apply command is shown when the Auto Apply checkbox is unchecked. This checkbox is at the bottom left of the Attribute pane. If it is unchecked and the Apply command still doesn't show, please provide a screenshot of the entire pane. It is possible the data is not editable. To check editability, review the List by Editing tab in the Contents pane.