Server takes 2 minutes, Relational Data Store takes 10 minutes. Portal just never completes. The staging folder has 79GB, but it has been like that for about 6 hours now.
You shouldn't have any problems upgrading. One tip: backup your setup using the webgisdr utility. It will create a file with an extension of .website. If you change that extension to .zip, it has each of the individual components available to restore. This way if one component upgrade goes sideways, you can just restore that particular part instead of having to roll everything back.
