Thanks to you guys who have answered. It sounds like Flex really doesn't have an existing solution for something as basic as maptips or tooltips or whatever they are called. In the .NET apps I can just add a few lines of code to have a maptip for a layer and it does not require a recompile.
I do currently have a widget similar to the cemetery one posted, which is a modified search widget. I also have a couple layers that don't require symbology and are small datasets where I was able to use the live layer widget.
I guess for small datasets that are points I could add some filter and multiple symbol functionality to the livelayer widget. I don't think I could use the top layer as a maptip strategy because we have so many layers in multiple services that I don't think I could ever guarantee that the layer needed was the top layer. Thanks for giving me something to think about though 🙂