The latest technique is always the one to choose when doing new development. So, I'd say that you choice to go with add-ins is solid.
I seriously doubt that anyone from ESRI is going to post on the death of COM extensibility in the forums.
If there is any breaking news on this then I'd expect it to be announced at the upcoming Developer Summit. In past summits, ESRI has made it clear with the ArcGIS Runtime that they want to limit customization possibilities. Of course, that is a 2 edged sword. On the one hand customizations limit their ability to change the system. On the other hand, the ability to customize the system has been a key component of their success. In the end it is all about the balance.