http://www.scs.ryerson.ca/~cps613/AssignmentReferences/DragDrop.shtml#Coordinates
Would this work?
try:
My.ArcMap.Document.ActiveView.Extent.XMin
My.ArcMap.Document.ActiveView.Extent.YMax
So I need the map position as well...
i think i am not understanding what you are trying to do but; those coordinates should be the upper left corner of the map...