r = arcpy.CreateArcSDEConnectionFile_management("c:/temp","sde","ffoooo","411","SQLSERVER","DATABASE_AUTH","sde","*****","SAVE_USERNAME","#","SAVE_VERSION")
msgIndex = 0
while msgIndex < r.messageCount:
if r.GetSeverity(msgIndex) == 1:
if '000565' in r.getMessage(msgIndex):
print "cant connect"
sys.exit()
msgIndex +=1
# if you get this far, assumed connection is made...