If there isn't an entry in the ...\etc\services file which corresponds to "NSESRIDBP01VM", then
the error means exactly what it says.
Given the the "instance" ends in VM, I suspect you crossed the "server" and "port" flags.
Thanks to the single database model, the database ("-D") parameter isn't really used in
application server connects anymore.
If you review the meanings of the "-s", "-i", and "-D" flags I expect you'll be able to find the
right parameter combination.
- V