Joe...forgot about the ones on boundaries,. Check out the Clementini options which I forgot to point out as viable options...from the same help files references
CONTAINS_CLEMENTINI —This spatial relationship yields the same results as COMPLETELY_CONTAINS with one exception. If the selecting feature is entirely on the boundary of the input feature (no part is properly inside or outside), the feature will not be selected. CLEMENTINI defines the boundary polygon as the line separating inside and outside, the boundary of a line is defined as its end points, and the boundary of a point is always empty.
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COMPLETELY_WITHIN —The features in the input layer will be selected if they are completely within or contained by a selecting feature. The selecting features must be polygons.
- WITHIN_CLEMENTINI —The result will be identical to WITHIN except if the entirety of the feature in the input layer is on the boundary of the feature in the selecting layer, the feature will not be selected. CLEMENTINI defines the boundary polygon as the line separating inside and outside, the boundary of a line is defined as its end points, and the boundary of a point is always empty.
but alas, there is no within a distance, so you have to do a clementini selection, switch the selection, then perform the within a distance from the selected set (if memory serves...don't have files to test at present)
