Tyler, you talk out of my heart. Every single word you say is true.
Now, they want me to be more constructive in my complaints. I understand that. But, the matter of fact is, even if I want it (which I do), I don't have got that time. Simply as that. In my work, I am heavily involved in software development and I can say, that is a lot of time and many mails to get things right and done. I cannot see how could I do that for ESRI.
And for what? Yes, to participate in their work free of charge, still paying a lot of money for a working software. Like in good sense of ESRI community. No problem, I can do that- one day when I get some time, when I am not in work and when I am in the mood (not resting exhausted of my own work).
Except for, when I see how much they care year after year about what all of us users write, I get progressivly out of that mood. And that could be a problem.
Cheers!