Also sometimes you are just off in an area that no one really has a quick answer for. I personally don't do a lot with editing, relationshipInspector, AttributeInspector.
You had a question about dates being off by one day this has been discussed numerous times on the both forums (Flex API and Viewer) and answers provided. Sometime I don't have time to search and provide the links, when this is something you should be doing yourself.