Portal upgrade to 12.1 completed ok
Hosting ArcGIS Server upgrade to 12.1 completed ok
But Data Store upgrade to 12.1 failed –
1 – I installed Data Store 12.1
2 – I installed the patch - https://support.esri.com/en-us/patches-updates/2026/arcgis-data-store-12-1-relational-store-upgrade-...
3 – I ran the Data Store configuration (for a Relational store) and got the following errors -
Attempt to configure data store failed.
Caused by: Database upgrade failed for relational store.
Caused by: Failed to start relational store.
Caused by: Connection timed out while waiting for relational store machine to start.

anyone else getting this?