Use Select Widget with List widget and Selections Disappear

[JaredPilbeam2]

I have a List widget that's using an attribute field as text and also two buttons linked to URL fields. It works as intended. I needed a way to select features in the map. At first I tried the map's Select tool but it doesn't allow selectable layers. Then I tried the Select widget. I can select features in the map, but when I click on one in the List widget they all disappear? How do you avoid having them disappear? I've tried record selection changes between the map and the List widget. But, when the Select widget is there the actions no longer work.