I just loaded the latest version or ArcPro (2.1.0) & I'm trying to save my gave my layout grid, however it is not giving me the options to Save to Style? WHY
I've just checked with my ArcGIS Pro 2.1 and 'Save to Style' is there.
Can you send another screenshot showing more of ArcGIS Pro?
From your screenshot, I assume you've tried with existing maps and a new empty one?
In Catalog, do you have a Styles folder?
The help says:
If you make a change to how the grid looks, does 'Save to Style' appear?
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