I am not able to find expression builder in arcmap 10.3.1.,from where i can see or find expression builder?
Are you looking for Definition Query (Layer Properties> Definition Query)?
It would be helpful if you provided a little more information on what software you are using (arc map or catalog) and whether you are trying to automate this or not. But these links may help you find what you are looking for.
Table Select—Help | ArcGIS for Desktop
Building a query expression—Help | ArcGIS for Desktop
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