Can you install ArcGIS for Server 10.2 on a machine that's already have ArcGIS for Desktop 10.1? Is it possible do that or is it going to conflict?
No. You need upgrade ArcGIS for Desktop to the same version of ArcGIS for Server if it's on same machine. Remember that also ArcGIS Server 10.2 requires a system 64bit.
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