I'm having the same issue with an application containing this add-in, yet in an unconsistent manner: for some of the computers accessing this application everything is going just fine (am able to use this add-in with no trouble), but for others - am getting the "Extension Load Failed" message when trying to edit the application, and a blank window browser when trying to access it. I'm using ArcGIS Server 10.0 installed on a local machine (Win 7 Pro). Please note me if other further details are needed in order to tackle this issue.
Thanks in advance
Cheers,
Gal